Accountability


AO: > Lightning Rod

QIC: > Walkman

PAX: > Lumbergh, Angus, Bunny, Danish, Buck



CONDITIONS

> 43 degrees and clear but it sure felt like a lower 30’s morning. Everyone was early and had some chatter to kick off the day. Daylight savings brought us some early Dawn during the workout which was refreshing.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> Third Grade x 15, Windmill x 15, Arm Scissors x 15, Slow high knees x 15, Imperial walkers x 15 with runs around the courtyard in between the first 4 exercises.

The Thang

> Everyone claimed a bench we completed a set of movements at each bench, with a transition movement to get us to the bench across from us. First set was

Slow squat x 20, Bear Crawl Bulgarian split squat left leg x 20, Bear crawl, Bulgarian split squat right leg x 20, Bear crawl

Real Peter Parker x 15, Lunge walk, Merkin x 15, Lunge Walk, Burpee x 15, Lunge Walk

LBC x 30, Broad Jump, Big Bois x 30, Broad Jump, American Hammer x 20, Broad Jump

Box Jumps x 30, Al Gore, Step ups right leg x 30, Al Gore, Step up left leg x 30, Al Gore

Repeated the cycle with the leg reps x 15, chest reps x 10, core reps x 20 (15 American Hammers), and bench work x 20.

For what it’s worth, YHC was having a hard time breathing while calling the count during LBC’s (after burpee’s & lunge walk). Serious mental panic over amount of oxygen/C02 in my body, amusing in hindsight and good for mental discipline but a 10 count prior would have likely been good for the PAX if I’m any indication – apologies for missing it.

6MOM

> Plank x 20, Side planks x 20 each side. Flutter Kick x 15.

Moleskin

> With our Go30 Challenge starting today we discussed Accountability.

Holding someone accountable is the process of helping them compare outcomes to goals and identifying the activities, attitudes, and beliefs that lead to success or failure. It’s shining a light on their blind spots, and helping them decide how they’ll grow.

Being held accountable is submitting your blind spots to the lens of someone else, and asking them to help you see. This is why permission is required. If you don’t give me permission, and I try to hold you accountable, I’m just an asshole pointing out your flaws as I perceive them. But with your permission, we can help each other see. We can eliminate our own blind spots by submitting to other people’s lens and asking for help. This requires others, as a man needs help getting right.

Accountability requires a standard. An unarguable position with which we can create a comparison. if your goal includes arguable language – terms like ‘some, a little, etc’ you can’t be accountable to it, and we can’t hold you accountable. The language matters and we must insist, for each other, that the language is clear and goals well defined.

If this sounds uncomfortable, it is. Most people have a negative impression of accountability. It’s not fun to have light shined on darkness. In the short term it doesn’t bring joy. But in the long run it brings freedom. We often conflate blind spots with moral failures. we often picture being yelled at or having an awkward conversation as the manifestation of being held accountable. It triggers shame and guilt as the primary motivators of better actions and beliefs. This is counter productive and wrongly done. Shame and guilt are not required to hold someone accountable, and they are often wildly ineffective.

That is why the ‘how’ matters. Not just the slack channel or text message vehicles we’ve identified, but what you want it to sound like when I hold you accountable. How do you want me to bring it up with you if i see your attitudes or actions not aligning with your goal? What would you like me to say that will help you be open to what I’m sharing and not guarded or defensive?

With that, and for the circle of trust, I want to you to know that you each have my permission to bring up me missing my goal, in this time (CoT) or via phone or text. If you see that I haven’t read for 30 minutes the day prior, id like it to be brought up directly. Please ask me what broke down in my process and help me identify why I didn’t do it. Then help me plan for my next 30 minutes. I also want you to know that if you’ve never held someone accountable, if you’ve never approached someone to positively identify a blind spot for them, and you want some language, it’ll be posted in slack and I’m happy to talk through it with you.

> Today’s accountability brought to you by Walkman

Deck of Death Monday


AO: > Lightening Rod

QIC: > Walkman

PAX: > Lumbergh, Angus, Buck, Bunny, Danish



CONDITIONS

> 33 degree’s and chilly caused some limited chatter to start the morning. Everyone was early and we all appreciated getting moving to warm up.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> Completed a series of warmups with a quick lap around the walkways in between. Third grade exercise x 15, Windmill x 15, Monkey Humpers x 10, Arm scissors x 15.

The Thang

> Deck of death

  • Hearts – Real Peter Parkers
  • Diamonds – Hindi Squats
  • Clubs – American Hammers
  • Spades – lunges….oh those lunges
  • Jokers – gorilla walk/bear crawl around the sign and back

DoD gave us a unique opportunity for the entire PAX to practice calling an exercise. Each person called the exercise of the card they drew.

6MOM

> Wrapped up DoD at 6:13, completed Flutter kick x 15, LBC x 20.

Moleskin

> Notes from Q1.2 – King

  • To be effective in our lives, we must keep our body upright.
  • How can the sould prosper if the body withers?
  • It’s made to be used, and the more its used the more prepared it is.
  • Exercise is King and nutrition is Queen – put them together and you’ve got a kingdom. (good add by Angus that you can’t out King your Queen – no amount of exercise trumps a poor diet)
  • The Jester is necessary to think about because even the most amusing distractions can topple a kingdom.
  • We don’t exercise to get better at exercising, we do it to be prepared mentally, physically, and emotionally.
  • For me, this was the goal of 2020. I’d spent a few years working towards physical goals – a target weight, an ability to lift a certain amount, etc and hit hitting them but 2020 was about exercising for mental health and bringing the best me to bear each week. For me this takes 3-4 workouts a week.
  • This is helpful weekly, but it’s also a longterm investment.
  • F3 breaks these pursuits down into something called 3S2T – strength, stamina, speed, mental Toughness and physical Toughness. These are the things we’re trying to accelerate.
  • 3S2T is best accelerated by running with other men.
  • We all have to find what works for us – age, physical history and injuries may impact what our best can be. But what is true for all me is that it works much better as a group than solo.
  • Together, we sharped each other. And it’s kind of simple – to get faster, find someone else faster than you and chase them until you catch them.

CoT – Thanks for sharpening me and letting me chase you, and for providing me an opportunity to let you chase as well.

>Today’s beatdown brought to you by Walkman

LavaField Gasser


AO: > Lava Field

QIC: > Lumbergh

PAX: > Angus, Danish, Tater Tot, Cradle, FNG (WetBag)



CONDITIONS

> Ideal GLOOM day, 48 degrees and cloudy.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

  • SSH x 25
  • Windmill x 15
  • Scissor Arm x 15
  • SSH x 25
  • Slow High Knees x 15
  • Butt Kickers x 15
  • SSH x 25

Mosey 400 meters

The THANG

Football Field Gassers:

  • Rifle Carry 10 yards and back
  • 10 Merkins
  • Rifle Carry 20 yards and back
  • 10 Merkins
  • Continue to 50 yards and back
  • 10 Merkins
  • Murder Bunnies 50 yards and back
  • 10 Merkins
  • Murder Bunnies 40 yards and back
  • 10 Merkins
  • Finish on 10 yards and 10 Merkins

If you stop, you owe 2 burpees. Run yards and back to finish (each circuit).

Carry Coupons to Stadium Stairs (3 Rounds).

  • 10 Block Curls
  • W/ Block, Snake Climb Stadium
  • 10 Racked Squats,
  • W/ Block, Snake Climb Stadium

Side Shuffle to 50 yard, switch direction side shuffle to end zone (2 Rounds)

6MOM

> Finished on the 6, Flutter kicks x 15, LBCs x 15, Big Bois x 15, Hold Six inches x 15

Moleskin

> From the QSource (POSITIVE HABIT TRANSFER (Q2.4))

I’ve been discussing being Missional and serving a purpose. There are many steps to take to be on mission, often times it’s first identifying the desired mission (or assigned) then determining the path needed to prepare for said mission. With that, I want to talk about some key takeaways from the Positive Habit Transfer portion of the Q-Source.

“IMPACT is an acronym formed by the different aspects of what HIM does to achieve strong effect through forcible contact:

Influence: igniting a powerful desire for Movement
Missionality: Serving in the High Impact Zone
Positive Habit Transfer: ingraining Advantageous tendencies in others
Accountability: submitting to Standard through Enforcement and Consequence
Correction: zealously advocating for shared virtue
Targeting: initiating Missionality in others

Bad Habits are easy to slip into, but hard to break. Positive Habits are hard to develop, but easy to slip out of. If it were otherwise, people would simply replace their bad Habits with good ones without the help of anyone else. But it doesn’t work that way. Most people need forcible contact from another person in order to replace their negative Habits with positive ones. This help is best delivered in the form of the Positive Habit Transfer (PHT) .”

My goal here at the Saturday AO is to drive home the value proposition embedded in the Q-Source. We will be looking to establish Coffeeteria’s moving into 2021 and laying the bricks of leadership on you all.

Remember –> Plant, Serve, Grow.

Had an FNG in the midst, learned a lot about Ben (Virginia boy, learned up at Elon, favorite food steak, and his first job was baggin’ groceries at Martin’s. Funny story – but you gotta meet him to find out). Introducing, WetBag to the Nation!!

> That’s a wrap, Lumbergh

Find a coupon, pick it up, all day long you’ll have good luck!!

AO: > Lightning Rod

QIC: > Lumbergh

PAX: > Angus, Dockers, Bunny, Walkman, Buckin’ Bobcat, Danish

Conditions

> Nice fall day, coming in at a cool crisp 47 degrees, partly cloud with the occasional sprinkle throughout the workout. Most of the PAX arrived early, Walkman and Buck assisted with carrying the coupons to the LR. Dockers arrived just in time!

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> At the LR:

  • SSH x 20
  • Windmills x 20
  • Squats x 20
  • Dips x 15
  • Merkins x 10
  • Flutter Kicks x 25
  • Hello Dollys x 20
  • SSH x 10

The Thang

> Three Rounds (100 count per exercise), Run (approx. 100m) lap before and after each round

ROUND 1

  • Overhead Press
  • Curls
  • Vertical Block Press
  • Bent Over Row

ROUND 2

  • Decline Merkin (modified to 50 count)
  • Squat
  • Tricep Curl
  • Shoulder to Shoulder Press

ROUND 3

  • American Hammer
  • KB Swing
  • Flutter Kick with Block Raised
  • Outlaws with Block Raised (50 each way)

Minimal mublechatter throughout, must of been a good one. Pushed for encouragement across the PAX to push thru the pain. Glad to see the group comz and support. The goal today was not to get it done, the goal today was to not stop and push past the pain. Be comfortable with the uncomfortable.

6MOM

> Flutter kick (20), Six inch leg raise hold (20), Spread Eagle (20)

Moleskin

DISRUPTION: QSource F1 (https://f3nation.com/disruption-f-1/)

A leader is a person who can influence people to do things that they would not have done otherwise. 

The connection between movement and leadership is critical because it presupposes a need for action, a recognition by the leader himself that the status quo is something less advantageous than some other place, a location the leader visualizes and then articulates to his followers. Only then can the leader begin to persuade them to follow him to the new place.

Being both Disruptive and agitating, leadership will naturally make people uncomfortable, at least until they begin to see for themselves that they are being led to a place of advantage.

A couple weeks back we talked about being missional. My mission is to strengthen my mind and body, focus on leadership but committing to a healthier lifestyle that leads me to weight loss but most importantly happiness in myself as I move thru this journey.

Today, I challenge all of you to consider your mission, then post it to Slack channel, so we can support you on your personal journey and I can hold you accountable.

> That’s a wrap, Lumbergh

#ForHudson (10.17.20)


AO: > Lava Field

QIC: > Lumbergh

PAX: > Angus, Danish, Title IX (Eugene, OR)



CONDITIONS

> Perfect 53 degree, partly cloudy, mostly dry day at the Lava Field to pay a tribute. Solid core of HIMs present to pay respect #ForHudson and to lift our brother Nomad from NW Arkansas.

PAX arrived early to get the TRIBUTE setup, shout out to Danish and Angus for the extra hands. We had the distinct pleasure to welcome this week’s down ranger, Title IX from Eugene, OR (by way of Knoxville). A quick centering on what we were here to accomplish and to plant the seed of encouragement to push through the pain, as this is bigger than us.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

  • SSH x 25
  • Scissor Arm x 20
  • SSH x 25

Mosied to the parking lot as we thought there was a Walkman siting, there wasn’t. Did 10 squats to settle our disappointment. Mosied back to opposite end of the track. Grabbed some space on the tool shed wall. Warmed up the quads with some wall sit shoulder work. OH Press x 15, Little arm circles x 10 (both directions), Moroccan Night Club x 10, Scissor arms x 10, OH Press x 15

The TRIBUTE

#ForHudson

5 ROUNDS:

  • H – (8) Hand Release Burpees
  • U – (21) Upright Rows w/ coupon
  • D – (4) Dan Taylor’s <1 squat, 4 alternating lunges>
  • S – (19) Spiderman Merkins
  • O – (15) Outlaws (both directions)
  • N – (14) No Surrenders
  • Finish the set with a 418 meter run

Completed the Tribute.

Coupon carry 100 yards to other end of the field (dealer’s choice). Spaced coupons across endzone for some work.

  • Murder Bunnies 20 yds
  • Run back to end zone and back 20 yds
  • Murder Bunnies 40 yds
  • Run back to end zone and back 40 yds
  • Murder Bunnies 60 yds
  • Run back to end zone and back 60 yds
  • Murder Bunnies back to 40 yds
  • Run back to end zone and back 40 yds
  • Murder Bunnies back to 20 yds
  • Run back to end zone and back to 20 yds
  • Murder Bunnies to end zone

6MOM

> Finished on the 6, Flutter kicks x 15, 3 x LBC’s

Moleskin

> From the QSource (First-Q Resource)

” We do not show up at F3 for ourselves. We show up for the man standing beside each of us. One undeniable truth, we need authentic relationships with other men who are working to be strong fathers, husbands, and leaders. Isolation will destroy a man! We have the opportunity to change our community and the trajectory of our families. Getting in the best shape of your life is just a by product. The workout is the magnet, the relationships and community with other men will keep bringing you back. Lock shields with us and help accomplish F3’s mission to invigorate male leadership in our community.”

Today we worked hard and left it all out there #ForHudson and our brother Nomad from NW Arkansas. Today we are a nationwide community. I shared this passage, to remind us why we show up, what we do in the gloom shapes who we are and the communities we live in and participate in. While we may not know Nomad or Hudson directly, we know this is exactly what Nomad would do for anyone of us. Our shield’s are locked with you, your family, the NW Arkansas community, and to all the men of the F3Nation. TAPS.

Followed by the presentation of the shovel flag from Portland to Eugene.

Plant, Serve, Grow.

> That’s a wrap, Lumbergh

A Well Laid Brick


AO: > Lightening Rod

QIC: > Walkman

PAX: > Lumbergh, Buck, Bunny, Danish



CONDITIONS

> Surprisingly warm and overcast for mid October. A bit of chatter to kick off the morning and Lumbergh showed up just in time for our Mosy down to 62nd and back to the school entrance on 52nd while doing Good Morning Merkins – believe we had (50) in total throughout the morning.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> Perfect plank combo today. Plank x 20, Merkin x 10, Shoulder tap x 20. Left leg up Plank x 15, Merkin x 5, Shoulder tap x 15, Right leg up Plank x 15, Merkin x 5, Shoulder tap x 15. Solid work by the PAX here, that was tough!

Mosied to the back entrance of the football field and climbed under/around the gate as apparently it doesn’t get opened.

The Thang

> Partner relay. Broke into teams of (2) and (3). Each team had to complete Rows (100, 150), Bulgarian split squats on each leg (100, 150), and big bois (100, 225) then we completed a six man run for 400M. Mosied to the lightening rod.

6MOM

> Got back to the ‘Rod at 6:12 and completed LBC’s x 30, American Hammers x 15, Peter Parkers x 30, Mtn climbers x 30.

Moleskin

> Shared more from Q1.1 on the ‘how’ of Q1: Get Right.

  • A man needs help to get right
  • A disruptor must come along to help them turn over the boat and commit to real movement and growth
  • Over time, and more importantly iterations of commitments, the amateur turns pro
  • The pro is someone who prepares mentally and physically for the likely and unlikely situations they’ll find themselves in
  • They make taking the red pill a habit, a routine so ingrained that to break it would require a conscious decision that conflicts with hundreds or thousands of successfully executed commitments
  • The first red pills are the toughest to swallow. The consequences are more sever because there’s no momentum yet. But continued action creates acceleration, leading to momentum, and making each successive red pill that much less painful.
  • This is true across all 3 F’s.
  • Momentum in all 3 F’s leads amateurs to become HIM’s (High Impact Men).

From the QSource:

” The HIM constructs his Routines through the process of bricklaying. Each individual Brick is a singular positive habit that is light enough for him to carry and place together with other bricks. Conjoined, the Bricks become a Routine that form and build his Guardrails. Once a Brick is set, it provides a place to lay the next Brick. Because it is set, the HIM has effectively deprived himself of the discretion to remove it. This enables him to focus his full energy on performing his Routines because he doesn’t have to waste energy thinking about it.”

“While Discretion may be the freedom to decide what to do in a given situation, for a man without Guardrails discretion is a cage with velvet bars – it will lead him to take the blue pill. The HIM learns that there is nothing liberating in having to decide what to do in every situation. True Freedom is the pre-determined what that allows the full focus on the how.”

Shout out: A note of praise to everyone present. Well done laying another brick, keep turning pro in all aspects of your life.

> Today’s beatdown brought to you by Walkman

Legs? Where were going, we don’t need legs.


AO: > Lightening Rod

QIC: > Walkman

PAX: > Lumbergh, Angus, Danish, Buck, Bunny, Herbie, Booch, Crazy chicken



CONDITIONS

> 50 degrees with shining stars greeted our largest native PAX at the Lightening Rod. The Hillsboro crew made the commute and were really, really glad they didn’t have to walk home. Angus looked like he’d completed his 3 miles already and there was some light chatter before kicking things off.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> Warm up circle of Slow High Knees x 20, Imperial Walkers x 20, and Arm Scissors x 20 prior to a circuit of lunge walks and Real Peter Parkers (RPP’s). Everyone picked a bench and did 10 RPP’s (Decline Pushup w/ a peter parker), then lunge walked to the middle and back, then a set of 9….8…7…..all the way to completion. YHC was overzealous in design the night before and thought an RPP should contain an extra pushup between each leg of the Peter Parker, but the first set of 10 set him straight and we corrected the exercise for all. Arms, shoulders, and legs properly warmed up, we mosied to the football field.

The Thang

> Everyone lined up on the goal line and we proceeded to sprint to the 20, complete 20 LBC’s, and backward lunge back to the goal line. Repeated to the 40 (40 LBC’s), the opposite 20 (60 LBC’s), the opposite 20 (80 LBC’s), and then all the way to the opposite goal line for 100 LBC’s to finish. We leave no man behind, so everyone picked up the six and supported the final LBC’s and final run together. We had a few minutes to spare, so we ran over to the wall and completed wall sits with Cherry Pickers x 15, Overhead Press x 15, and forward arm circles x 15, because who needs legs and shoulders anyway? Mosied back to the Lightening Rod.

6MOM

> Plank x 25, Side Plank x 15 on each side, Hollywoods x 15 on each side, Freddie Mercury’s x 15, Plank x 20 to round it out.

Moleskin

> Shared the ‘Get Right’ Q as encouragement and direction for the PAX. Angus reminded us of the analogy of having a flipped over boat while trying to cross a river. You must rightside the boat, and get back in, to make any progress towards your goal.

> Today’s beatdown brought to you by Walkman

Shothouse 1000 (F3Chattanooga)

AO: > Lightning Rod

QIC: > Lumbergh

PAX: > Angus, Lumbergh (Q), Walkman, Buckin’ Bobcat, Danish, FNG

Conditions

> A perfect Oregon morning, 54 degrees, also known as ‘Gettin’ After It Weather’ or ‘GAW’…yes, I just made that up!

PAX was there, ready to blast, Lumbergh (Q) late to the party, arriving early by 1 min…might need some 2nd F to get this thing tightened up. FNG rolled up in time for joining in SSH.

Warm Up (Circle of Pain)

> At the LR:

SSH x 20, Imperial Walkers x 10, SSH x 15, Little Baby Circles (Fwd & Bkwd) x 10, Scissor Arms x 15, SSH x 10

Mosey to Track for the THANG..

The Thang

> Kicked off with 10 inch worms (hand walkouts to plank, walk legs to hands, repeat for count)

100 of each exercise below, run to top of bleachers after completion of each exercise

  • Merkins
  • Burpees
  • Dips
  • Squats
  • Big Bois
  • Shoulder Taps (Hard Count)
  • Alternate Side Lunge (Easy Count)
  • Squat Jacks
  • Plank Jacks
  • LBCs

None of the PAX completed the THANG, mosey back to LR…mummblechatter on the mosey, Lumbergh (Q) called out PAX for not getting it done (self included), put PAX on notice >F3Chattanooga must be fitter if they can get it done< let PAX know that we’ll be doing this again to measure progress.

6MOM

> LBCs x 25

Moleskin

Three variations of kindness:

‘Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.’ -Ephesians 4:32

“As a mother even with her own life protects her only child, so should one cultivate immeasurable loving-kindness towards all living beings.” — Buddha, The Metta Sutta

‘The Golden Rule: Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.’

Emphasis on kindness and provided multiple views of similar applications and approaches to life, depending on your own personal mantra and/or faith principles. Implored the PAX to take up this offering b/c nothing is promised, all we have guaranteed is the day in front us. Be present, be kind, show up, lead with kindness, pick those up who fall, so when you fall they are there to pick you up, be humble.

Shared a recent situation where my sister-in-law was in a horrific car accident (this past Sunday which caused me to prioritize family and miss the Monday post). Her car was t-boned as a car ran a red light, flipping her vehicle, needed assistance to even get out. Fortunately, came out relatively unscathed (whiplash and shoulder sprain). Take away is that in a second your life can and will change, how we behavior and navigate the life we are given will certainly shape not only the life we have on earth but the legacy we leave on it.

Wrapped up with Count-A-Rama and Name-O-Rama. Had a new FNG, Jonah…learned a bit more about him (lots of options Jonah and the Whale, Jonah Hill inspos), ultimately arriving at nugget of info from how/where he met his wife. PAX introducing ‘DOCKERS’.

> Last call, Lumbergh